For dads over 40 who've done well and outgrown the job.

Good job. Good money. No love for it anymore.

You can't walk away, because the family's built around the pay. You can't keep going like this either. This 5 minute diagnostic shows you what it's really costing you, and the first move that doesn't gamble your family's security.

Take the 5 Minute Diagnostic

It looks impressive from the outside.

You've done well. Good title. Steady salary. People think you've got it sorted.

But somewhere along the way you lost the love for it. You hit your numbers. You keep your head down. And you sit in meetings wondering if this is it for the next twenty years.

You'd change it tomorrow if you could. But the mortgage, the kids, the life you've built all run on that salary. A pay cut isn't an option.

So you stay. And you bring it home. Short with the kids over nothing. In the room, but your head's still at work.

It's hard to explain the feeling. It's not a crisis. It's a crossroads.

Four areas. One honest score.

The diagnostic looks at the four places the job costs you: The Work, The Handcuffs, Home, and The Next Move. Then it shows you which one to deal with first.

  • The Work

    whether you've outgrown the job, or just this version of it

  • The Handcuffs

    how much the salary is keeping you stuck

  • Home

    what the job is costing the people you love

  • The Next Move

    how clear you are on what comes next

Five minutes. Then you'll know what to deal with first.

Here's What You'll Walk Away With

  • Where the job is costing you most: your energy, your headspace or your family
  • Why you feel like this, in words you can actually explain to your partner
  • The first move to make, without walking out or taking a pay cut
  • A clear next step

How It Works

  1. 1Answer 20 honest questions (5 minutes).
  2. 2Get your score straight away.
  3. 3See what to deal with first.

This Is For You If

  • You've done well in your career and lost the love for it
  • The family runs on your salary, so walking away isn't an option
  • You're bringing work home: short tempered, distracted, there but not there
  • You want to know your next move before another two years go by

This isn't for you if you've already left your job and need income fast. Sort that first, then come back.

About Me

I'm Jon. Youngest bank manager at 22. Senior roles in banking, recruitment and operations. Good money, young family. And I used to sit in the car outside my house before I could face going in.

I worked out what I actually wanted and built the plan to get there. Now I help dads who've done well do the same.

Jon Cooke, founder of The Honest Man Project
Jon Cooke
Find out what it's really costing you.

Five minutes. One honest score. Know what to deal with first.